
Erotic Intelligence Coaching (EIC) is a personal or retreat experience that deepens intuitive self-trust—supporting your capacity for rest, work, & play rooted in pleasure, erotic connection, & feeling desirable through the erotic alchemy of:
Erotic Intelligence + Erospirituality.

Option 1:
6 Sessions @ $1050.00
Recommended for navigating relationship with erotic self, incorporating the erotic in your healing, and/or needing support with life transitions and pressure.
Option 2:
8 Sessions @ $1400.00
Recommended for improving mind-body connection, de-armoring your trauma responses to pleasure, and reclaiming an empowe
Option 1:
6 Sessions @ $1050.00
Recommended for navigating relationship with erotic self, incorporating the erotic in your healing, and/or needing support with life transitions and pressure.
Option 2:
8 Sessions @ $1400.00
Recommended for improving mind-body connection, de-armoring your trauma responses to pleasure, and reclaiming an empowered erotic self.
Option 3:
12 Session @$2100.00
Recommending for deepening your erotic self-awareness, healing your erotic energy, and your mind-body connection.

Option 1:
6 Sessions @ $1350.00
Recommended for relationship maintenance, life transitions, spicing up your sex life.
Option 2:
8 Sessions @ $1800.00
Recommended for wanting to improve intimacy & sexual connection or navigating non-monogamy and/or kink.
Option 3:
12 Session @$2700.00
Recommended for healing trust, attachments, and considering consensual non-monogamy and/or kink.

Erotic Intelligence Coaching (EIC) is a trauma-informed immersive experience. Expect your EIC sessions to be curated as sacred spaces to honor the parts you prevent others from seeing. Together, we explore and co-create your path to erotic liberation through erotic narrative, consent-informed somatic and erosomatic practices, and use Erospirituality as the life force guide to living erotically empowered.
My rate is $185 per 60-minute individual session and $225 per 75-minute couples session.
I offer coaching packages with a 3-month coaching container. See above for details.
In most cases, I work with clients through a 3-month private container rather than one-off sessions. This supports safer pacing, deeper integration, and real change, especially when we're working with intimacy, trauma, desire, boundaries, or long-held patterns.
Note:
Erotic Intelligence Coaching are not billable with insurance. However, I am licensed in Delaware and New Jersey, and insurance reimbursement may be possible. Please contact your insurance company for clarification.
The work described on this site is private pay. I maintain a select number of insurance-based openings in addition to these offerings, and availability is limited.
If you're unsure whether we're a fit, you're welcome to reach out, and I'll let you know the best next step.
Because transformation needs continuity. A 3-month container allows us to:
Private work is available by prepayment for a 3-month container. This protects consistency, supports my capacity to be present for your care, and deepens the work.
There are 6-12 sessions depending on what EIC Coaching Package your choose. Most clients meet weekly or biweekly, depending on your goals and capacity. We'll create a rhythm that supports both momentum and nervous-system care.
Yes. Many of my clients are those in leadership, healthcare providers, and spiritual entrepreneurs seeking private, discreet, high-integrity support. My work is designed for people who want depth, accountability, and embodied practice, not quick fixes.
Email MxQueen@Erospirituality.com (click the Let's Talk button) with:
Please Note:
I keep a limited number of private client spaces available at any given time to protect the depth, presence, and quality of care.
Within 48 hours, I'll respond with next steps and scheduling options.
One of the uses of the erotic is the relationship to reciprocity. In the past, I expected others to care for me as I cared for them only to realize I am the only one who owes me anything. I consent to take care of people (i.e. self-sacrifice) but no one asked me to. In this I learned another use of the erotic - radical responsibility.
I have a right to my emotions and a responsibility to my reactions.
Learning and unlearning radical responsibility as a lesson in self-accountability was a hard lesson to embody.
You deserve to be loved & f*cked well.
You are also responsible with discerning who deserves to have access to you by first loving and loving on yourself.
Recognizing your erotic power is rooted in consent and capacity will change how you embody the erotic,, the energy of feeling desirable (i.e. sexy)-sexually and non-sexually.
I hope this share affirms to you your readiness to gently experience an erotic expansion that empowers your relationship to consent and reclaim your capacity for feeling desirable, worthy, and tending to your erotic needs.
If so...
EIC Coaching is the 1:1 and group coaching program that anchors the Healing Your Erotic Energy (HYER) luxury retreat experience. It provides your guests with a professional, evidence-informed coaching container — before, during, and after their time at your property — ensuring lasting transformation and a compelling reason to return.
The fastest-growing segment of luxury wellness travel is the transformation-seeking guest: high-achieving women and LGBTQ+ travelers who have explored fitness, nutrition, and mindfulness retreats and are now seeking something deeper — an encounter with their inner life that is embodied, intimate, and genuinely liberating. EIC Coaching meets this demand with evidence-based practices, cultural intelligence, and lived authenticity.
Healing Your Erotic Energy Retreat provides:
• A structured coaching methodology rooted in somatic sexology and healing justice
• 1:1 private sessions and group cohort options for individual and group retreat guests
• Pre-retreat preparation and post-retreat integration packages — offered as resort add-ons
• Curriculum grounded in the four pillars of embodied intelligence: Mind, Energy, Body, Spirit
• Facilitated by a licensed clinical social worker, somatic sexologist, sexuality educator, and TEDx speaker
Mx. Lena Queen (Queen/they), LCSW, M.Ed., is a clinical somatic sexologist, integrative psychotherapist, TEDx speaker, and author of Healing The Erotic Self and SHIFT, A Self-Liberation Practice. Queen is the founder of Erospirtuality Centre, and the sexual wellness media brand, SistaSexologist. Their work has been presented at ALTNYC, #ConsentCon, ABSC International Lecture Series, National Sex Ed Conference, Sex Down South, in addition to, academic, clinical, collegiate, and community settings.
Queen is available for ongoing facilitated residencies, one-time retreat engagements, and bespoke programming development for select resort partners.
"Your erotic intelligence, as a critical component to your embodied intelligence, also informs and depends on your ability to access the parasympathetic nervous system—the “rest and digest” state where pleasure, arousal, and intimacy become possible.
The other EQ, erotic intelligence, is the connection you have been missing."
-Mx. Queen