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    • Healing the Erotic Self
    • Erotic Intelligence
    • EIC Coaching
    • Provider Wellness
    • The Sacred Circle
    • testimonials
    • FAQ
SistaSexologist
  • Healing the Erotic Self
  • Erotic Intelligence
  • EIC Coaching
  • Provider Wellness
  • The Sacred Circle
  • testimonials
  • FAQ

Erotic Intelligence Coaching

Erotic Intelligence Coaching (EIC) is a personal or retreat experience that deepens intuitive self-trust—supporting your capacity for rest, work, & play rooted in pleasure, erotic connection, & feeling desirable through the erotic alchemy of:

  

Erotic Intelligence + Erospirituality. 

1:1 Sessions with Queen

Erotic Relationship Coaching with Queen

Erotic Relationship Coaching with Queen

Option 1:

6 Sessions @ $1050.00 

Recommended for navigating relationship with erotic self, incorporating the erotic in your healing, and/or needing support with life transitions and pressure. 


Option 2:

8 Sessions @ $1400.00

 Recommended for improving mind-body connection, de-armoring your trauma responses to pleasure, and reclaiming an empowe

Option 1:

6 Sessions @ $1050.00 

Recommended for navigating relationship with erotic self, incorporating the erotic in your healing, and/or needing support with life transitions and pressure. 


Option 2:

8 Sessions @ $1400.00

 Recommended for improving mind-body connection, de-armoring your trauma responses to pleasure, and reclaiming an empowered erotic self. 


Option 3:

12 Session @$2100.00

 Recommending for deepening your erotic self-awareness, healing your erotic energy, and your mind-body connection. 

Ready to Begin

Erotic Relationship Coaching with Queen

Erotic Relationship Coaching with Queen

Erotic Relationship Coaching with Queen

Option 1:

6 Sessions @ $1350.00 

 Recommended for relationship maintenance, life transitions, spicing up your sex life.  


Option 2:

8 Sessions @ $1800.00

  Recommended for wanting to improve intimacy & sexual connection or navigating non-monogamy and/or kink. 


Option 3:

12 Session @$2700.00

  Recommended for healing trust, attachments, and considering consensual non-monogamy and/or kink.  

Reclaiming Our Connection

Erotic IntelligeNCE Coaching for 1:1 & Relationships

You are Worth the Effort

Erotic Intelligence Coaching (EIC) is a trauma-informed immersive experience. Expect your EIC sessions to be curated as sacred spaces to honor the parts you prevent others from seeing. Together, we explore and co-create your path to erotic liberation through erotic narrative, consent-informed somatic and erosomatic practices, and use Erospirituality as the life force guide to living erotically empowered.


What is my rate for 1:1 sessions?


My rate is $185 per 60-minute individual session and $225 per 75-minute couples session.

I offer coaching packages with a 3-month coaching container. See above for details.


Do I offer single sessions?


In most cases, I work with clients through a 3-month private container rather than one-off sessions. This supports safer pacing, deeper integration, and real change, especially when we're working with intimacy, trauma, desire, boundaries, or long-held patterns.


Note:

Erotic Intelligence Coaching are not billable with insurance. However, I am licensed in Delaware and New Jersey, and insurance reimbursement may be possible. Please contact your insurance company for clarification.


Are my services private pay or insurance-based?


The work described on this site is private pay. I maintain a select number of insurance-based openings in addition to these offerings, and availability is limited. 


If you're unsure whether we're a fit, you're welcome to reach out, and I'll let you know the best next step.


Why is a 3-month commitment required?


Because transformation needs continuity. A 3-month container allows us to:

  • Build embodied safety and trust (not just insight)
  • Track patterns over time (not just in one moment)
  • Practice new skills with support and accountability
  • Integrate what you learn into real life relationships, communication, boundaries, and desire
  • Work in a way that is trauma-informed, consent-forward, and sustainable


How does payment work?


Private work is available by prepayment for a 3-month container. This protects consistency, supports my capacity to be present for your care, and deepens the work.


How many sessions are included in 3 months?


There are 6-12 sessions depending on what EIC Coaching Package your choose. Most clients meet weekly or biweekly, depending on your goals and capacity. We'll create a rhythm that supports both momentum and nervous-system care.


Do I work with leadership professionals?


Yes. Many of my clients are those in leadership, healthcare providers, and spiritual entrepreneurs seeking private, discreet, high-integrity support. My work is designed for people who want depth, accountability, and embodied practice, not quick fixes.


How do you get started?


Email MxQueen@Erospirituality.com (click the Let's Talk button) with:

  • Whether you're seeking 1:1 or relationship work
  • A few lines on what you want to shift over the next 3 months
  • Your general availability and time zone
  • Any preference for weekly vs biweekly sessions.


 Please Note:

I keep a limited number of private client spaces available at any given time to protect the depth, presence, and quality of care. 


Within 48 hours, I'll respond with next steps and scheduling options.

The WHY

 One of the uses of the erotic is the relationship to reciprocity. In the past, I expected others to care for me as I cared for them only to realize I am the only one who owes me anything. I consent to take care of people (i.e. self-sacrifice) but no one asked me to. In this I learned another use of the erotic - radical responsibility.


I have a right to my emotions and a responsibility to my reactions. 


Learning and unlearning radical responsibility as a lesson in self-accountability was a hard lesson to embody.


You deserve to be loved & f*cked well. 

You are also responsible with discerning who deserves to have access to you by first loving and loving on yourself. 


Recognizing your erotic power is rooted in consent and capacity will change how you embody the erotic,, the energy of feeling desirable (i.e. sexy)-sexually and non-sexually.


I hope this share affirms to you your readiness to gently experience an erotic expansion that empowers your relationship to consent and reclaim your capacity for feeling desirable, worthy, and tending to your erotic needs. 


If so...

Let's Talk

Partner with Me for Retreats

Bring EIC to Your Retreat or Resort

EIC Coaching is the 1:1 and group coaching program that anchors the Healing Your Erotic Energy (HYER) luxury retreat experience. It provides your guests with a professional, evidence-informed coaching container — before, during, and after their time at your property — ensuring lasting transformation and a compelling reason to return. 

Wellness Travel is Ready for This

The fastest-growing segment of luxury wellness travel is the transformation-seeking guest: high-achieving women and LGBTQ+ travelers who have explored fitness, nutrition, and mindfulness retreats and are now seeking something deeper — an encounter with their inner life that is embodied, intimate, and genuinely liberating. EIC Coaching meets this demand with evidence-based practices, cultural intelligence, and lived authenticity.

What HYER Brings

Healing Your Erotic Energy Retreat provides:

  • A structured coaching methodology rooted in somatic sexology and healing justice

• 1:1 private sessions and group cohort options for individual and group retreat guests

• Pre-retreat preparation and post-retreat integration packages — offered as resort add-ons

• Curriculum grounded in the four pillars of embodied intelligence: Mind, Energy, Body, Spirit

• Facilitated by a licensed clinical social worker, somatic sexologist, sexuality educator, and TEDx speaker  


About Lena Queen

 Mx. Lena Queen (Queen/they), LCSW, M.Ed., is a clinical somatic sexologist, integrative psychotherapist, TEDx speaker, and author of Healing The Erotic Self and SHIFT, A Self-Liberation Practice. Queen is the founder of Erospirtuality Centre, and the sexual wellness media brand, SistaSexologist. Their work has been presented at ALTNYC, #ConsentCon, ABSC International Lecture Series, National Sex Ed Conference, Sex Down South, in addition to, academic, clinical, collegiate, and community settings.   


Queen is available for ongoing facilitated residencies, one-time retreat engagements, and bespoke programming development for select resort partners.


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How are you taking care of yourself?

 "Your erotic intelligence, as a critical component to your embodied intelligence, also informs and depends on your ability to access the parasympathetic nervous system—the “rest and digest” state where pleasure, arousal, and intimacy become possible. 


The other EQ, erotic intelligence, is the connection you have been missing." 

-Mx. Queen


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