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with Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed., sistasexologist
Somatic Sex Therapy & SHIFT Embodied Wellness Coaching
Somatic Sex Therapy
Erotic Life Coaching
Energy Healing
Hypnotherapy
Workshops & Retreats
Public Speaking
Healing The Erotic SelF & Reclaiming PleasuRe
The Journey Towards Sexual Healing & Sexual Liberation
Hello Hello Beautiful Human...
Welcome to this part of your journey.
My Why...
You are a lover and you are WHOLE.
Trauma disrupts the connection to our wholeness.
This impacts your ability to become a present and intentional lover to yourself and to others. This ability is what I call - your lovership. The embodiment of your lovership is called The Erotic Self.
I personally and professionally know this truth. As a Black femme survivor of the complex trauma of multiple core wounds from my childhood and adulthood and... after reclaiming my HEALING NARRATIVE, I AM THRIVING in my lovership. Professionally, The Erotic Self is a sexological research concept I use to help myself and my clients heal and reclaim their lovership.
As a result of healing my erotic self, I realized I AM WHOLE and I was already WHOLE.
I learned in my journey towards sexual healing and sexual liberation that Healing The Erotic Self is Healing The WHOLE-Self.
I believe the path between one's sexual healing and well-being requires WHOLE-Self healing to experience, without sexual distress, joy and pleasure, sexually and non sexually. This is sexual healing.
Your sexual healing allows you to SHIFT from wounded lovership to an empowered lovership.
This is the SHIFT I guide you through by supporting you to establish and embody safety from within, develop self-trust with an intuitive relationship with your mind, body, and energy. This is sexual liberation.
What is sexual distress?
Defined by sexuality researcher and educator Dr. Shemeka Thorpe (2023), sexual disress is negative emotional responses such as worry, anxiety, frusration, bother, or feelings of inadequacy that people experience related to their sex lifes and sexual functioning.
What is sexual healing?
Sexual healing is the therapeutic, spiritual, and emotional transformation of one's erotic energy.
What is sexual liberation?
Sexual liberation is one's ability to act unshamely with self-permission and authenticity to engage with their erotic self within sexual experiences for the purpose of pleasure, pain, power, and/or a combination of those experiences-which can exist OUTSIDE of the attainment of relationship with others or orgasms.
What is the erotic?
The Erotic is the energy of desirability, both sexual and non-sexual.
Who do I support?
While my work centers Black women, femmes, and non-binary folks' sexual healing, I support those who clients who desire to heal and are commited to creating empowering lovership for themselves.
How can we work together?
With my somatic psychotherapy and Somatic Sex Therapy practice, Journey Wellness & Consulting Group, LLC., my teaching and consulting non-profit, The WHOLE-Self Healing Institute, Inc. and my signature life coaching program, Healing The Erotic Self & SHIFT Embodied Wellness Coaching for personal & corporate wellness, I have a multitude of ways of supporting your WHOLE-Self and sexual healing journey.
Not ready to work 1:1?
Then I invite you to explore my self-pace options to establish safety and self-trust, get the digital download and free resource, SHIFT, A Self-Liberation Quick Guide, create a liberatory framework to dissolve sexual distress with the ebook, Healing The Erotic Self Healing Guide and Reflection Journal Healing (paperback available soon), and heal your erotic energy with an erotic hpynotherapy meditation. Similar to my 1:1 work, these resources can be used for both personal healing and professional development.
Who am I?
I am Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed. (Queen/they/SistaSexologist), a private practice clinical somatic sexologist an integrative psychotherapist, certified hypnotherapist, cannabis & plant medicine advocate, and transformational life & erotic coach, in addition to, author, a professional development coach, consultant, and TEDx speaker.
What I do...
From a healing-centered and pleasure-affirming coaching & healing approaches , I offer a variety of support including Somatic Sex Therapy, SHIFT Embodied Wellness Coaching and workshops, professional development training and consultations, & public speaking talks.
My sex therapy & embodied wellness coaching approach supports you by establishing safety from within & creating self-trust by improving your intuitive relationship with your mind, body, and energy. Our work together will dissolve self-limiting beliefs with an empowering mindset, replace self-sabotaging behaviors with nurturing care practices, & help you reconnect to your peace, your power, your pleasure, & self and relationship intimacy with an empowered and liberated embodiment, your lovership.
As shared above, we will use a variety of healing strategies and intentional care practices such as story-telling integrative hypnotherapy,, erotic hypnotherapy, mindful movements, meditation, breathwork, sound healing, and energy work to support your efforts to create your desired lovership.
Contact me today to schedule your consultation or get started with Healing The Erotic Self digital products.
